The work
The work I do is relational and focused on pattern. I don't run intake checklists. I don't assign homework. I pay attention to what happens in the session. The moments when something shifts or goes flat. The pattern that keeps showing up underneath the problem. Most people already know their own story. They still keep landing in the same place. What's missing is someone watching in real time, someone who can name what you cannot see from inside it. More on how I work, and how I work with couples.
Why people in Eindhoven work with me
Three reasons. Speed, first: I have room now, no referral needed, against a public queue that averages twenty-four weeks. Fit, second: my practice is entirely internationals, and the population Brainport runs on, technical people far from home, partners rebuilding careers, families on their second or third relocation, is the population I see every day, so you will not spend sessions translating your world. Privacy, third: in a one-industry region, discretion has extra value, and I work fully outside the Dutch system, so there is no GGZ dossier, nothing a company doctor, insurer, or huisarts can reach. If what you actually need is GGZ care, a BIG-registered clinician, or medication, I will say so plainly.
What people bring to online therapy
The people I work with in English come for a wide range of reasons: anxiety, depression, stress and burnout, anger management, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, loneliness, self-esteem issues, procrastination, sleep problems, attachment patterns, self-sabotage, perfectionism, identity questions, and existential concerns. Online counseling makes this work possible from wherever you are, whether you need an English-speaking therapist, a virtual counselor, or simply someone who can work in your language at a depth that matters.
How it works
Sessions are online via secure video call. I work with individuals and couples (60 minutes). Before your first session, we have a free 15-minute call to see if this feels like the right fit for you.
The Eindhoven patterns
Eindhoven is a company region the way Rotterdam is a port. ASML, the High Tech Campus, the Philips legacy, and the supplier web around them draw engineers and technical specialists from India, China, Turkey, Italy, Brazil, everywhere. Many are on the thirty percent ruling. Most are on timelines. The local mindset is the engineering mindset: define the problem, decompose it, ship the fix. It is a beautiful instrument, and it is exactly the wrong tool for the things that bring people to me. You cannot debug a marriage. Grief does not decompose. A flatness that has lasted two years is not a ticket you can close.
The social structure adds its own load. In a company town, colleagues are the network, the friend group, and the weekend plan. That is exactly why they are the last people you would tell. The partner who followed the ASML offer. She found a city that is pleasant, functional, and closed, where social life routes through a badge she does not have. The engineer whose performance reviews are excellent and who sits in the car in the parking garage for ten minutes before going in. The couple whose relocation was supposed to be two years and is now five, having the same fight in a country neither of them chose exactly.
And Eindhoven is a practical city, not a romantic one, which makes a particular sentence land harder here than almost anywhere: everything works, and I feel nothing. That sentence is a starting point, not a verdict.
Therapy in Eindhoven: an engineering region, a human bottleneck
Brainport recruits globally; Dutch mental healthcare does not. The public route runs through the GGZ on a huisarts referral, covered by basic insurance, with average waits now around twenty-four weeks and much of the work in Dutch. Relationship therapy is not covered at all. Private English-speaking depth therapists, roughly 90 to 150 euros a session, are thin on the ground here and heavily booked. So a region that imports engineers from every continent asks them to queue for half a year for help in a language many of them do not speak. This is private depth work in English, paid directly, outside the GGZ.
Questions people ask from Eindhoven
Selected research on this approach
My work is psychodynamic and depth-oriented. These are some of the studies on the effectiveness of that kind of therapy. They describe research on the method in general, and are not claims about any individual outcome.
- Shedler, J. (2010). The efficacy of psychodynamic psychotherapy. American Psychologist, 65(2), 98-109. doi:10.1037/a0018378
- Steinert, C., Munder, T., Rabung, S., Hoyer, J., & Leichsenring, F. (2017). Psychodynamic therapy: as efficacious as other empirically supported treatments? A meta-analysis testing equivalence of outcomes. American Journal of Psychiatry, 174(10), 943-953. PMID 28541091
The full reading list is on the approach page.