The work
The work I do is relational and pattern-focused. I don't run intake checklists or assign homework between sessions; I pay attention to what happens in the session, the moments when something shifts or goes flat, and the recurring pattern underneath the presenting problem. Most people already know the story of their situation and keep landing in the same place. What's missing is someone watching in real time who can name what's invisible from inside it. More on how I work, and how I work with couples.
Therapy in Copenhagen: an English-speaker in a Danish-language system
Copenhagen has more English-speaking therapy than anywhere else in Denmark, and it is still a narrow door. The public route runs through your GP (egen læge) and the yellow health card: with a referral (henvisning), the public scheme subsidizes roughly 60% of a limited course, usually up to twelve sessions, but only for specific qualifying conditions, mild to moderate depression, anxiety, grief, and a short list of others. The categories that send most internationals to therapy, relocation adjustment, a marriage under strain, identity and meaning, a life that looks fine and feels empty, are not on that list. For those you are private from the start. And even inside the public system the subsidized psychologists work on annual quotas and long waits, fourteen weeks is a common figure and the Capital Region runs longer, with no guarantee the available clinician works in English. The private market is open, faster, and yours to choose from, at roughly DKK 800 to 1,400 a session, which is where most English-speakers in Copenhagen end up.
The Copenhagen patterns
Copenhagen ranks year after year among the happiest cities on earth, which is its own particular pressure when you are the one who is not happy. The patterns I see have a local accent. The trailing partner who moved for a Novo Nordisk, Maersk, or tech role and lost their own footing in the process. The high earner inside the famous work-life balance who still feels hollow at six in the evening and cannot say why. The international who has been here three years, speaks survival Danish, and still cannot get inside the social circle, because Danish friendship tends to set early and close quietly, and Janteloven asks you not to make too much of yourself in the meantime. And the winter, which is not a metaphor: about seven hours of daylight at the solstice, dark on the way to work and dark on the way home, with seasonal depression a genuine and common part of the picture rather than a soft excuse. None of it shows from the outside. That is part of what makes it heavy.
Why people in Copenhagen work with me
The practice runs online, in English, on a schedule that fits a Danish working day. Three things bring people to me specifically. The gap, first: I work with exactly the concerns the subsidized system leaves out, adjustment, relationships, identity, meaning, the high-functioning flatness that has no diagnosis code. Privacy, second: I hold no Danish authorization, bill no Danish system, and write nothing into any record your GP, employer, or insurer can reach. Fit, third: my whole practice is people living outside their home country, so the daily texture of being an international in Copenhagen needs no translating. If what you need instead is a subsidized authorized psykolog, medication, or care inside the Danish system, I will tell you so and point you toward it.
Questions people ask from Copenhagen
What people bring to online therapy
The people I work with in English come for a wide range of reasons: anxiety, depression, stress and burnout, anger management, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, loneliness, self-esteem issues, procrastination, sleep problems, attachment patterns, self-sabotage, perfectionism, identity questions, and existential concerns. Online counseling makes this work possible from wherever you are, whether you need an English-speaking therapist, a virtual counselor, or simply someone who can work in your language at a depth that matters.
How it works
Sessions are online via secure video call. I work with individuals and couples (60 minutes). Before your first session, we have a free 15-minute call to see if this feels like the right fit for you.
Selected research on this approach
My work is psychodynamic and depth-oriented. These are some of the studies on the effectiveness of that kind of therapy. They describe research on the method in general, and are not claims about any individual outcome.
- Shedler, J. (2010). The efficacy of psychodynamic psychotherapy. American Psychologist, 65(2), 98-109. doi:10.1037/a0018378
- Steinert, C., Munder, T., Rabung, S., Hoyer, J., & Leichsenring, F. (2017). Psychodynamic therapy: as efficacious as other empirically supported treatments? A meta-analysis testing equivalence of outcomes. American Journal of Psychiatry, 174(10), 943-953. PMID 28541091
- Leichsenring, F., Abbass, A., Heim, N., Keefe, J. R., Kisely, S., Luyten, P., Rabung, S., & Steinert, C. (2023). The status of psychodynamic psychotherapy as an empirically supported treatment for common mental disorders: an umbrella review based on updated criteria. World Psychiatry, 22(2), 286-304. PMC10168167