The work
The work I do is relational and focused on pattern. I don't run intake checklists. I don't assign homework. I pay attention to what happens in the session. The moments when something shifts or goes flat. The pattern that keeps showing up underneath the problem. Most people already know their own story. They still keep landing in the same place. What's missing is someone watching in real time, someone who can name what you cannot see from inside it. More on how I work, and how I work with couples.
Why people in Seoul work with me
Three reasons. Privacy, first. Here a record is feared. I work outside the Korean system entirely. No file. Nothing entered anywhere. Fit, second. My whole practice is people living outside their home country. The texture of a posting or an academic life in Seoul needs no translating. And the work is depth-oriented. Availability, third. English-language depth work is scarce here. I have room, online, across time zones. For insured psychiatric or in-person care, I will point you toward it.
What people bring to online therapy
The people I work with in English come for a wide range of reasons: anxiety, depression, stress and burnout, anger management, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, loneliness, self-esteem issues, procrastination, sleep problems, attachment patterns, self-sabotage, perfectionism, identity questions, and existential concerns. Online counseling makes this work possible from wherever you are, whether you need an English-speaking therapist, a virtual counselor, or simply someone who can work in your language at a depth that matters.
How it works
Sessions are online via secure video call. I work with individuals and couples (60 minutes). Before your first session, we have a free 15-minute call to see if this feels like the right fit for you.
The Seoul patterns
The city draws a distinct crowd. The corporate expat in the conglomerate world, in finance, or at a regional HQ. The English teacher. The academic or researcher. The Korean professional who cannot risk a record reaching an employer or family. The expat couple under the strain of a demanding posting. The high performer whose week is relentless and whose inner life has gone numb. The stigma here is not abstract; it shapes who feels able to ask for help at all. The work meets that directly. In fluent English. Entirely off any record.
Therapy in Seoul: intense stigma, a thin English supply
South Korea's health system covers psychiatry, which leans heavily on medication and creates a medical record, but access to sustained talk therapy is limited and stigma is intense, with real fears about anything going on file. Counselling is often not available in fluent English, and depth therapists who work in English are scarce against a large professional and academic expat population. Seoul concentrates a large expat and professional population in a culture where a mental health record is genuinely feared, and English-language depth therapy is scarce. This is private depth work in English, paid directly, outside the Korean system, with nothing on any file.
The self-pay workaround everyone in Seoul knows about
The mechanics behind the record problem are worth spelling out. Korean national insurance covers psychiatric visits well, commonly sixty to eighty percent with copays of a few thousand won, but a visit billed through NHIS enters the national insurance database with a diagnosis attached, and that record can surface later in private insurance applications and certain disclosure contexts. Since May 2024 you also need ID to use NHIS coverage at all. Talk therapy with non-physician counsellors, meanwhile, is generally not covered in the first place.
So a whole tier of Seoul clinics offers self-pay visits, bigeupyeo, paid directly and never billed to NHIS, precisely so nothing enters the database. Koreans use it, expats use it, and the fact that this workaround is an open institution tells you how real the underlying concern is. English-language private counselling in Seoul commonly runs 100,000 to 200,000 won for fifty minutes. The full picture is on my South Korea page.
Work with me is structurally self-pay: outside NHIS, outside Korea, no database entry anywhere, in fluent English rather than the translated version of it.
Questions people ask from Seoul
Selected research on this approach
My work is psychodynamic and depth-oriented. These are some of the studies on the effectiveness of that kind of therapy. They describe research on the method in general, and are not claims about any individual outcome.
- Shedler, J. (2010). The efficacy of psychodynamic psychotherapy. American Psychologist, 65(2), 98-109. doi:10.1037/a0018378
- Steinert, C., Munder, T., Rabung, S., Hoyer, J., & Leichsenring, F. (2017). Psychodynamic therapy: as efficacious as other empirically supported treatments? A meta-analysis testing equivalence of outcomes. American Journal of Psychiatry, 174(10), 943-953. PMID 28541091
The full reading list is on the approach page.