If you are in Germany and you want therapy in English, you have probably already run into the two walls. The first is the wait. The second is language. Even with statutory insurance that in theory covers psychotherapy, getting an actual place with an actual therapist who actually works in English can take the better part of a year, if it happens at all.

This is a guide to what is really going on: how the German system is built, why the wait for a reimbursed place is so long, what the Kostenerstattung route is and the catch that excludes a lot of people from it, and how private therapy without insurance works. I do the last of these, and I will be straight about where I fit and where the statutory system is the better answer.

How the German system works

German statutory psychotherapy runs through a sequence. You typically start with your Hausarzt (GP) or go directly to a psychotherapeutische Sprechstunde, the initial consultation that has been the mandatory entry point since the 2017 reform. From there, to get ongoing reimbursed therapy you need a Psychotherapeut who holds both the Approbation (the state license) and a Kassensitz (a panel seat that lets them bill your Krankenkasse directly). The therapy itself is one of the reimbursed modalities, conducted in German unless you find the rare practitioner who works in English and has room.

Why the Kassensitz wait is so long

The bottleneck is not a shortage of trained therapists. It is a shortage of seats. The number of Kassensitze is capped by central planning, the Bedarfsplanung, which limits how many therapists can bill statutory insurance in a given area. Plenty of fully qualified, Approbation-holding therapists practise without a Kassensitz precisely because the seats are rationed. The result is artificial scarcity: statutorily insured patients often wait six months or considerably longer for a place, and the Bundespsychotherapeutenkammer's surveys have long documented waits of several weeks just for a first consultation and three to six months to begin actual treatment, with Berlin and Munich among the worst.

The clinical qualification is identical. A therapist in private practice and one with a Kassensitz both hold the same Approbation. The only difference between them is a billing seat that the state hands out in limited numbers.

Kostenerstattung, and the catch

There is a legal escape hatch, and it is worth understanding precisely, because it helps some people and not others. Kostenerstattung under section 13(3) of the SGB V says that when your Krankenkasse cannot provide timely care, a situation the law calls Systemversagen, system failure, it must reimburse treatment you arrange privately. In practice this means documenting that you could not find a Kassensitz place within a reasonable time, usually around three months, by contacting a number of practices and the Terminservicestelle and recording the rejections.

Here is the catch. Kostenerstattung requires that the private therapist holds a German Approbation. The route exists to pay for a licensed German psychotherapist who simply lacks a Kassensitz, not for just anyone. That is genuinely useful if you can find an Approbation-holding private therapist with availability who works in English. It also means that a US-trained therapist like me does not qualify for it, and I would rather tell you that directly than let you discover it after the fact. Some Krankenkassen also resist these claims even when the legal basis is clear, so if you go this route, document everything and be ready to appeal.

Not sure whether the statutory route or private therapy fits?

A 15-minute conversation costs nothing and will give you a clear sense of which one makes sense for your situation.

A brief conversation to see if this feels like the right fit for you. Not therapy.

Private therapy without insurance

The other route is to step outside the statutory system entirely and pay privately, as a Selbstzahler. This is what it sounds like: you pay per session, no Krankenkasse is involved, nothing is billed to statutory or private insurance, and nothing enters your German health record. It is available to everyone regardless of insurance status, the gesetzlich insured, the privat insured, and anyone whose coverage simply will not help in English. What you trade away is reimbursement. What you get is speed, language, depth, and privacy.

When you should stay in the statutory system

I would rather tell you plainly when not to choose private therapy. If you need medication, the statutory route through a Hausarzt or Psychiater is the right one. If you need a formal diagnosis or assessment for insurance, disability, or similar purposes, that needs an Approbation-holding clinician inside the German system. If your situation is severe or high-risk, or if reimbursement is essential and you can find an Approbation-holding therapist through Kostenerstattung, the system is built for that and you should use it, including the documentation steps above and an appeal if your Kasse initially refuses.

How I fit, and where I do not

I am a US-trained therapist working online in English, and I am a private, self-pay option for people in Germany who want to start now. My work is open-ended and pattern-focused rather than a diagnosis-coded protocol, and it stays entirely private. The trade is explicit: no reimbursement, in exchange for starting this month, in your own language, with depth work and confidentiality. You can read more on the Germany page, or about how online therapy compares to meeting in person.

And the honest limits: I do not hold a German Approbation, so my sessions do not qualify for Kostenerstattung, and I do not prescribe medication or provide formal diagnoses. If insurance reimbursement is essential for you, you need an Approbation-holding Psychotherapeut, not me. If you mainly need medication or assessment, that is the Hausarzt or Psychiater route. A free fifteen-minute call is usually enough to tell which of these you actually need, and I will say so directly rather than sell you something that does not fit.

Common questions about therapy in Germany without insurance

Can I get private English-speaking therapy reimbursed in Germany?
Sometimes, through Kostenerstattung, but only if the therapist holds a German Approbation and you can document that no Kassensitz place was available within a reasonable time. A US-trained therapist like me does not qualify. If reimbursement is essential, look for an Approbation-holding private therapist who works in English.
What does Selbstzahler (private pay) therapy cost, and what do I get?
You pay per session with no insurance involved and nothing entering your health record. In exchange for giving up reimbursement, you get to start immediately, in English, with open-ended depth work rather than a fixed protocol. My fees are in USD, billed by card or bank transfer.
Do I need a referral or a Sprechstunde to start privately?
No. The referral, the Sprechstunde, and the Kassensitz steps all govern reimbursed care. Private therapy is a direct arrangement with no Überweisung and no diagnosis code. You can simply book a first call.
Why is the wait for a Kassenplatz so long?
The number of seats that can bill statutory insurance is capped by Bedarfsplanung, not by the number of qualified therapists. That rationing, rather than a talent shortage, is why places are scarce and waits run for months.

I work online, in English, with clients across Germany and beyond. I offer individual therapy and couples therapy via secure video call, with no referral and no waiting list. Before your first session, we have a free 15-minute call to see if this feels like the right fit.

What Clients Say

"I came in thinking I knew what my issues were. I'd been over them a hundred times. But those were just the things I could already see. Aaron helped me notice what I couldn't, and that's where everything actually started to change."

— M.J.

"I'd been in and out of therapy for years. Different therapists, different approaches, none of it really stuck. Aaron helped me understand more in a few months than all of them combined. And he talked to me like a normal person, not like all this weird therapy-speak."

— S.A.

"A few years ago I suddenly developed prolonged panic attacks but couldn't begin to understand what had caused them. Having been in therapy in the past, and being a counseling intern student, I felt I had exhausted my resources trying to figure out "What is wrong with me?" I can honestly say Aaron provides a form of counseling that is difficult to find anywhere else regarding efficacy. Not only has his approach been effective, but he also has provided me a safe space to explore aspects about myself I may not otherwise have felt able to. I cannot recommend him enough as he has helped me feel more myself than ever before."

— K.R.

Schedule a Free Consultation
A brief conversation to see if this feels like the right fit for you. Not therapy, not a sales pitch.