The work
The work I do is relational and pattern-focused. I don't run intake checklists. I don't assign homework between sessions. I pay attention to what happens in the room. What you're saying. What you're not saying. The moments when something shifts, goes flat, or speeds up. That's the material we work with.
Most people arrive already knowing their own story. They've told it to themselves a hundred times and always land in the same place. What's missing is a different angle. Someone watching in real time, who can name what you cannot see from inside it. That's what I offer. Not interpretation from a distance. Attention in the room, offered as it happens.
I work with individuals and couples. Individual work is usually about finding the pattern underneath the presenting problem, the thing that keeps recurring in different forms across different circumstances. Couples work is about finding what the argument is really about, which is rarely what it appears to be about. Both come down to the same thing: seeing what you haven't been able to see, and from there, actually being able to do something different.
What couples bring
The standard material: recurring conflict, distance, infidelity, sexlessness, the question of staying together. The country-specific material often involves the multinational career anchoring, the question of whether this is a permanent chapter or a posting, and the slow erosion of the social world that produces a particular kind of relational compression.
How couples therapy in English works in Switzerland
Sessions are online via secure video, 60 minutes, usually weekly. Both partners can be on the same screen or in separate locations across Zurich, Geneva, Basel, Bern, Lausanne, or anywhere else. A free 15-minute call first. There is no Swiss health-system involvement or local record from our work. You can pay in any currency, by card or bank transfer.
English-speaking couples therapy in Switzerland exists, in Zurich and Geneva. It comes at a price. Options for sustained depth work are limited. For couples where one person moved for the other's career, Switzerland can be very isolating. Excellent conditions, and a social world that is genuinely hard to enter. Both of those things are true at once.
I work with couples who need to work in English and are living in Switzerland. The trailing partner whose career didn't transfer. The relationship where one person has a career and a structure. The other has a beautiful apartment and too much time. Neither of them chose that split on purpose. The slow drift that sets in when the conditions are excellent and the closeness is not.
The country has a particular quality. It is easy to explain to yourself why things should be fine here. Everything works. You, somehow, do not. The comparison isn't kind. That logic keeps couples from naming what is really going on.
Being in Switzerland as a couple
Switzerland has a specific effect on couples. The country runs unusually well. The transport works. The institutions are stable. The quality of life by most measurable standards is high. And the social texture is one of the slowest in Europe to enter from outside, which puts the relationship in a particular position of carrying more of your social and emotional life than it was originally built for.
The most common pattern in couples I see in Switzerland involves the corporate or academic expat track. One partner is at a multinational in Zurich, a pharma or banking job in Basel, an institution in Geneva, the EPFL or CERN orbit in Lausanne. The hours are demanding and the work culture is precise. The other partner is dealing with a labor market where the local-language requirement is real even when most colleagues will speak English, and where building a professional life independent of the working partner's network is slow.
Swiss reserve is real and culturally deep. The pace at which actual friendships form is slow even by Northern European standards. For couples in their first years here, the loneliness can feel like a relationship problem when part of it is structural.